Dont let him define your value!!

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Embracing the triumphs of the feminine
               Spirit
Episode 18
Your value
Some ladies wait for men to come along before they realize their value. They chill for guys to say the most cliche thing I have ever heard “has anyone ever told you are beautiful?”  I mean, does that line still work? It’s so old!(wondering). Some ladies wait for guys to say things like this before they realize how valuable they are.
Many women feel that them being single means they don’t have value or they are not taken as valuable by men but no! Never ever never ever in your life let men define your value. If you wait for him to define your value for you, he can choose to reduce your self esteem and he begins to determine the value you put on yourself. He begins to control you and places you under him and you know why he is able to do this? Because he knows you look up to him to get your value and self respect. That’s soooooo wrong girl!
Look at it this way; you enter into a boutique to buy a dress. You see a really pretty dress that you fall in love with immediately. You ask the cashier how much it costs and she mentions a price that is more than what you brought or you have to offer to get that dress. You may swallow your pride and ask for the price to be reduced but the cahier refuses cos she knows the value of that dress. Would you stay there and stare at the dress? No! You would either settle for a cheaper dress or leave. And when you leave, does the dress still have its value? Of cos it does. You can’t afford it so you leave it for someone who can! Whether you buy the dress or not isn’t important because the dress hasn’t lost its value because you didn’t buy it.
Don’t settle for any cheap buyer. A guy who really knows your worth would pay any price just to get you. Know your value ladies! Build up your self-esteem! And when that man walks into your life and you realize he isn’t adding anything to you or he sees your high self esteem as a threat, tell him to walk out cos he simply can afford you. Don’t let any man reduce yourself esteem!
I understand that we are humans and we have the tendency to always need people to make us feel good about ourselves. In order to avoid this, make sure you are happy as a single lady before you go ahead to share your happiness with another

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