FIGHT THAT FIGHT NOW

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Embracing the triumphs of the feminine
                Spirit
Episode 17
Fight that fight now!
Don’t just shut up and swallow the things he does! Don’t just let everything slide! Yes, there may be some things he does that you may let go of at a point in time or the other but other times, you just have to fight it out! This doesn’t mean you should go and meet him in that high pitched opera voice we women have that has that powerful tendency to drive men away! No! when he does something wrong, go and meet him calmly, tell him you don’t like what he did and make sure you guys resolve it at that moment cos girl, if you allow a puddle become a stream then you are gonna be in for it later.
If we keep on piling and piling grievances in our heart, it ends up destroying our relationships because there would come a day that you would be fed up.
I overheard a friend tell someone “if you have a small fight, don’t jus brush it off and continue without resolving it because the day you guys just happen to have a big fight, every piled up anger would come rolling out and mehn, Its gonna be bad!”
Solve your issues immediately they come. If you are at fault, look for a calm mood, meet him with soft tones and apologize. There is no how that won’t get to him unless he is a stone! We have that power you know, to calm their hearts. Even if he is at fault sometimes, you need to swallow your pride and apologize in order to save your relationship. As ladies, we are the threads of our relationships. Therefore, handle them with care. The way you handle your fights determines how long you guys are gonna last.

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