Embracing the triumphs of the feminine  
                Spirit
Episode 15
The forever
“A woman who enjoys being a woman is the most desirable creature to man”-McKinney Hammond. A real man is looking for a real woman, some one that’s original. She is always herself and she is someone he trusts would be able to take care of herself and her children when he is gone.
Be womanly. Soft and strong at the same time, vulnerable and ferocious, dependent, powerful and independent at the same time. Confused? This means you should be dependent on him to perform his functions as a man and dependent on him to cater for you and your kids but not a liability. And you should be independent enough to be able to contribute to the development of your home and not just sit at home and wait for your daily bread.
Be wise and child like, stubborn and unpredictable. These and lots of other contradictions make us the women we are.
Be resourceful and not just a spend thrift. Guys recognize when girls are just there to extract money from them and once they recognize you are one of those kind of girls, you are quickly chased out of this category.
Be a smart woman and learn how to take control. Correct him when he is wrong, he would appreciate it I assure you. Don’t just say “yes sir” to everything he says. For those of you that have watched the movie, “coming to America”, if you recall, when Eddie Murphy was trying to get to know the girl that was brought to him as his wife and she kept saying whatever he liked was what she liked too, it irritated him. He wanted someone he could share ideas with. He wanted someone smart that had some conflicting ideas with his.
She laughs and feels good about herself and life as a whole. There is a sort of joy and happiness that comes when you are around her. She has a soft and calm spirit.
 Let’s try and act like the women God has created us to be and see the excellent result that gives us.

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