Embracing the triumphs of the feminine
Spirit
Episode 12
The other woman
Have you ever sat down to wonder where the man the adulterous woman
was caught with in the Bible was? Why wasn’t he dragged down to be stoned? Why
was it just the woman that was brought out? I mean, all fingers were pointed at
this woman as though she was the only one caught in the act.
Well, these days, things are no better. When someone breaks up our
relationships, we always refer to them as ‘that woman or that girl’ and even go
ahead to call them names. We always keep it in mind that ‘she’ is the one who
caused the breakup and we use that to purge ourselves from whatever guilt or
pain we may be feeling. But then, I think we should sit down and ask ourselves
a question. Ask yourself ‘what is wrong with me?’ ask yourself where you went
wrong because you know something girls, in the words of McKinney Hammond,
”I believe that no woman takes a man away from another woman, she
gives him away. I hear the screams of indignation all the way as you read this
but hear me out first. How does a woman give a man away? By giving him what she
“thinks” he needs instead of what he says he wants. This is why it’s of utmost
importance to listen to your man”
Listen to him and when things fall apart, ask yourself where you went
wrong instead of casting all the blame on “her” or do you wanna go ahead and
put the blame on her? Sure you can! Put your shoes on, enter your car, and
drive all the way to her house. Pull her out and you guys should fight and tear
your skins with your nails and go ahead to pull out each other’s hairs and make
yourselves bald! Then what next? Your man remains with her! Sorry to say. So
sit, think and try to bring it all together.
Then for oh ye women that derive so much pleasure in always being “the
other woman”. You’re the one that always wants to point out his girl’s
shortcomings and tries to prove that you are the only one that can rise above
her shortcomings. Hmmmm honey, don’t forget he played “the real her” to come to
you and he also played on your emotions in the sense that he came and appeared
so vulnerable with all the talk of my wife did this and that and you offer your
beautiful shoulders to him. There’s something about this you may not have realized.
If you managed to get someone else’s man how can you be so sure some other hawk
isn’t waiting for you in front, ready to pluck that man right out of your
hands? When you as “the other woman” realizes this, you begin to live with that
fear of him leaving and would try all you can to keep his attention on you and
my dear, he is surely gonna feel the pressure and Gbam! He loses that interest
he once had in you.
Ladies, be careful! Take your time! Love is enough for everyone. Where
are you rushing to? Let’s leave the struggle and allow God mould out his plan
for our lives. J thank you!
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