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Embracing the triumphs of the feminine
                 Spirit
Episode 9
How to get there
There are just some things we women have that are really powerful but we fail to use sometimes
“so Delilah said to Samson, tell me the secret of your strength and how you can be tied up and subdued” (judges 16;6)
Delilah assaulted all of Samson’s senses until he gave her one priceless information that was key to his life. I am sure he didn’t even know what made him tell her. The problem now is that it’s the wrong people that know the kinda power they have and use it to their own advantage. Women of Delilah’s time left no stone unturned when appealing to men. They knew the strength of a man in his heart and they did all they could to get there. There are many ways we can use to get there. We are gonna be exploring some of them in the next few days.
First of all, Silence. SILENCE IS GOLDEN AND VERY EFFECTIVE. Being silent doesn’t mean being a dummy who sits mopping all the time. This means you should know when to be quiet and let your man take control. Silence actually speaks better than word sometimes, in fact most times.
When you are in a room full of people and everyone is talking at the top of their voices and trying to air their opinion and you just notice one very calm person sitting at a corner looking at everyone and smiling, there’s this sudden urge to hear what that person may be thinking. You want him to listen to you? Learn to be silent.
“thou has taken account of my wanderings; put my tears in thy bottle”(psalm 56;8) There is just something g about tears that gets to the heart of man. There is something tender about God’s image and as we know, men were created in the image of God. Therefore, man also has that tender spot. “tears season the atmosphere with tenderness. And when you are hurt, it’s ok to say ouch and allow him the privilege of being there for you”-McKinney Hammond. Cry and let him be your knight in shining armor. This doesn’t mean you should cry at every given opportunity. In fact when you do that, your tears become powerless and that’s not something you may want to happen, I tell you. Just be you and when it hurts, say so. It helps
We shall be exploring more of these ways in the next few days. I hope you had a nice time. Please you can leave your comments. Thanks J

Comments

  1. Anonymous9 November 2013 at 07:51

    I enjoyed reading it, it made me smile and its true al;so

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  2. Anonymous9 November 2013 at 09:52

    yeh!you dont finish us oh,this na smooth operator.i dey enjoy you ride on

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