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Embracing the triumphs of the feminine
                Spirit
Episode 23
Liabilities though!
What I tell myself everyday is I can never be a liability to any man by the grace of God. My marriage must be such that when I speak, he listens, when there is a problem he cannot solve, he can come to me for solutions. My marriage must be something that I know my husband won’t feel complete without me because I plan to add a lot of value to his world. I am gonna complete him. That’s what women are for actually. We were brought out of man to complete him
“God said “it’s not good for man to be alone. I’ll make him a HELPER, A COMPANION”-Genesis 2:18
We were made from man by God, to be his helper and his companion not a burden he has to carry. Ladies, never make yourself a liability to any man. We are single ladies and they are single men too and I believe we are all working apart: we haven’t been joined together. You want to gain respect, then earn it! Every time, you’re like”hey, ummm I need a new phone” hey I just called up, I need money to do a few things,” “I need to get my hair done”! Ladies, if that man doesn’t offer, don’t ask, at least that is my theory! No matter how much you need something, don’t go all “I need that ““I need this” because when he begins to avoid your calls and you, don’t go to your friends in tears! You caused it. It amazes me, like seriously! Ask your parents. Ask them first because he gets all you ask him for from his parents too. It amazes me you know. When you ask a guy for too much than he is willing to offer, you become a liability and you lose your self worth. Don’t wait for any man to come and provide your needs, go ahead and earn a living.
Be an asset. The kind of lady he wants to give everything to without you even asking. The type he asks for solutions for his problems, the one he can have a reasonable conversation with, and I assure you, that self respect you seek for would come to you sooner than you expect!

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