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Embracing the triumph of the feminine                Spirit Episode 29 Well well well! Well guys and girls! I really thank you all for taking time to read this series. It means so much. I hope you learnt a thing or two because it’s only then that my mission is fulfilled. I have tried to give us ways in which we as women can celebrate our femininity and ways we can use to improve our wonderful God given characteristics. We are all children of God and he wishes for the very best things for us. No matter who you are, what you have done, where you come from, just know that God knows you by name and has your interest at heart (Jeremiah 29:11) that’s actually my favorite scripture-“for I know the plans that I have towards you, plans of good and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope”. Any time you begin to doubt your potential, remember that God used various women in the bible to fulfill one thing or the other ; Mary, Mary Magdalene, Esther, Rahab, Ruth, Abigail and

Embracing the triumphs of the feminine               Spirit Episode 28 Send it to voice mail! I’m sure we have heard this “when the past calls, send it to voice mail; chances are it has nothing new to say. Exactly! Many at times, we ladies go back to past relationships immediately our exes call saying they miss us. Ohh it’s so flattering right! The thought of being missed and the feeling of being wanted by someone is so good and we can’t resist it! We go back and the things that made the relationship go wrong in the first place would appear again and you come out with a more broken heart than you had before. And though it was going through a healing process, the wounds open up again and you start hurting afresh. See ladies your ex calling back to

Embracing the triumphs of the feminine                  Spirit Episode 27 Too soon and too available..nahh! Let him hunt you down. Don’t be too available ladies. When you are, you may begin to lose value in his sight and he may begin to take you for granted. Men are naturally hunters and sorry to say, we women are the prey. And let me add something. Hunters hunt for preys based on the value they put on those preys. If a prey is too available, they may not even hunt but probably just pick. Look our dear Miss Chicken. Chickens are everywhere. In poultries, on the road, on the streets, and even in some peoples kitchens. Yeah! Kitchens! I once had a friend like that.lol You won’t find an individual carrying weapons

Embracing the triumphs of the feminine               Spirit Episode 26 Break down those walls At times, we as ladies build up some walls that our past relationships have set up and use them as defenses against future relationships. We fight off any one that tries to come close and we close our hearts against anything or anybody that tries to show us love because we believe all they do is hurt us. It’s alright to feel hurt, cry, break things, and at times, it seems building walls is the best thing to do. We become so cold, fearless and hard and it seems nobody can get to us. We wear pretty dresses, make our hairs pretty, make up our faces to hide the pain and start our day! Despite this hardness, we still feel the pain, go to bed to cry at night and feel lonely sometimes.   While we are doing all these, let’s just make sure we look out in order not to make the mistake of pushing the ones that really care away. And how would we know the right people? By giving people a c

Embracing the triumphs of the feminine                    Spirit Episode 25 We attract what we are If we are needy, we attract other needy people and if we are healthy we attract healthy relationships to ourselves because we don’t tolerate what we are not. If you are against commitment, you attract other commitment phobic kinds. If you are just in a relationship for sex and money, you attract people who are in it for sex and money. Walk down memory lane and think of all your past relationships. Remember all the guys you have dated and all your girlfriends too..yeahh, exactly, your choices simply reflect you. Forget about the hustle and struggle going on these days on getting guys and getting the “right” one. Sit in a quiet place, go on vacation or something. Spend some time alone and think. Think of the person you are, think of your likes, what interests you and then mirror yourself, put yourself into someone else. Is that the kind of person you want to attract, do you w

Embracing the triumphs of the feminine                  Spirit Episode 24 Don’t let it run out!! One thing no woman has to waste is time. When you leave high school, you find yourself in college and very soon, before you know it, you become a graduate, where then is the time for you to remain stuck in things you know are not working out or for you to wait for your knight in shining armor to come before you do some things? As ladies, never waste your time on somebody that you know doesn’t deserve what you have to offer or on a relationship that you know isn’t going to lead to anything. When you find out that this particular guy causes more pain for you than joy and you have tried all you can but things are still not working, then girl, jump out of that relationship before time jumps out on u. Don’t live your life stuck on one place or one person when things are hopeless. But if things look promising then you can remain in whatever you are doing as long as it has a future.

Embracing the triumphs of the feminine                Spirit Episode 23 Switch off the orange lights! Don’t just sit and put your life on hold waiting for “Mr. Knight in shining amour” to come and sweep you off your feet. As single ladies, According to McKinney Hammond, get a life! She doesn’t mean this the harsh way, it just means, arrange your life while waiting. Create something out of yourself instead of just keeping your life on hold! If you decide to put your life on hold, not developing any part of you but just sitting at home waiting for him to come and probably saying you would think about doing something when you enter into the relationship, then you’ve got it all wrong girl! The thing is, whoever you are waiting for is somewhere making a living for himself and you are just sitting at home waiting for him. Meanwhile, he would expect to come back to an already made someone, not someone he has to start molding. So, girls, don’t wait for someone to come and pick