we attract what we are

Embracing the triumphs of the feminine

                  Spirit

Episode 25

We attract what we are

If we are needy, we attract other needy people and if we are healthy we attract healthy relationships to ourselves because we don’t tolerate what we are not. If you are against commitment, you attract other commitment phobic kinds. If you are just in a relationship for sex and money, you attract people who are in it for sex and money. Walk down memory lane and think of all your past relationships. Remember all the guys you have dated and all your girlfriends too..yeahh, exactly, your choices simply reflect you.

Forget about the hustle and struggle going on these days on getting guys and getting the “right” one. Sit in a quiet place, go on vacation or something. Spend some time alone and think. Think of the person you are, think of your likes, what interests you and then mirror yourself, put yourself into someone else. Is that the kind of person you want to attract, do you want the person to think the kind of thoughts you think. Ask yourself if you can go into a relationship with yourself and be happy and comfortable. If you can’t, then maybe you need to make some major changes to your life or don’t you think so?