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Embracing the triumphs of the feminine
                 Spirit
Episode 14
The freak
Every guy wants someone that can challenge him in all areas including intellectually. When I say challenge, I don’t mean you should square up your shoulders and assume rights and all that. No, I mean motivate him to think, motivate him to use his mind.
In a study of men, it was discovered that many of them want a conversation maker and a conversation holder. Someone they can sit down and plan their future with, someone they can talk about relevant things with. You shouldn’t only be interested, you should also be interesting!
“your beauty should come, not from outward adornment, such as braided hair, and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit which is of great worth in God’s sight”.-1 Peter 3;3-4
Loudness is something that really pisses your listeners off. It creates this impression that you may just be one of those shallow people and as we know, first impressions last. When a girl is too loud, she is seen as a very noisy and a very random person. Ladies, am I lying? When you walk into a room and there is this lady that is all over the place, shouting, laughing and throwing herself at everyone, you turn to your friends and you guys do a little roll of your eyes or you squint your noses. And honey, once you create this impression, especially in a gathering of guys, then you automatically are put into this category. Even the bible says, “it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit”
Secondly beautiful ladies, let’s talk about our Makeup. Yeah, make up. J”your beauty shouldn’t come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothing”
Don’t get this wrong. The Bible isn’t saying you should not look good or wear nice clothes. In fact, God loves it when we look really good for him but don’t let clothes or makeup be your priority or the basis of your beauty. Let your beauty come from within first. Make sure your inside is beautiful first and then go ahead to work on your outside.
You can make up girl, and when you do, wow! You look awesome but don’t paint your face. I once heard a guy ask a girl if it’s possible for her to drink her makeup so she can also be beautiful on the inside. Ouch! That’s harsh right? But that’s what we get when we focus more on our outside than our inner spirits. Once guys see that all you care about is make up and looking nice, the thought of you being a ‘forever’ lady is discarded because they begin to assume that if that’s all you care about, you won’t be able to handle their homes.
Once in a while, appreciate nature and go out the way you were made, it would mean a lot to God.
Ladies think about this! And by the way, for all the ladies reading this right now, you are really really really really pretty!! And don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. And do you know why am so sure you are pretty? Because we were all created by one God and mehnn! Have u see this God!? He is sooooo! He is perfect! And so are you!

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  1. Emmanuel Alagbe.20 November 2013 at 07:01

    U're right. That was fabulous. U're really doing a great job. Kudos!!!

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